Economy Hair Part Deux

I am lucky enough to have REALLY dry hair. And by lucky, I mean not at all lucky. It was in desperate need of a mask and instead of buying one, I made one. I found a recipe online that called for olive oil and eggs (yummy). It's simple. 5 TBS of olive oil with 2 eggs. Give it a try! Oooh, another benefit to eggs and olive oil is apparently it has great hold and can create a look to rival the Bride of Frankenstein. Hair and Halloween tip all in one!

Sometimes I need a little pick me up . . .

The Best Part of Living in Santa Barbara

These are the two brothers I never got to live with, growing up because I'm soooo old.

It's so fun to get to now!!! They are the best.

Viva La France - Paris

I was getting ready to send a list of "Favorites in France" to my aunt and uncle who have just moved there for a year and thought it would be fun to share. This list is primarily recommendations from friends of mine who lived in Paris for two years. I still think France wins as my favorite country I've been to, and I think it was because we had such great recommendations. We did almost everything they suggested. So here are a few favorites and tips from my friends. Her comments are the bulk of the post, and I make a few notes in parens throughout. I will follow up with a post on what we did in the rest of France as well. OH, AND PLEASE ADD ANY FRANCE SUGGESTIONS IN THE COMMENTS SECTION FOR MY AUNT & UNCLE.

SHOPPING AND NEIGHBORHOODS

Don't waste too much time actually shopping on the Champs Elysees. It is all chain stores like Zara, H&M, Gap, etc...still you get a thrill just being on the street, but opt to spend time there having a hot cocoa at an outdoor cafe in the evening (some of the cafes even provide blankets and outdoor heaters!). The trees are lit this time of year (we went in November), and it is beautiful. I would do that and go to the Arc de Triomphe, especially at rush hour. Watching the cars on the Charles de Gaulle Etoile is ridiculously fun.- If you want to see the first class shops, Hermes, Chanel, etc...hit Rue Faubourg-St. Honore. Shop after shop of high end couture. Just fun to window shop if you are into that kind of thing. And I think everyone should get an Hermes scarf!

Champs Elysees

If you will be in Paris on a Saturday or Sunday, I highly recommend, HIGHLY recommend, going to the Marche aux Puces at St Ouen. They are "flea markets" but more like antique markets, crafts fairs, etc...everyone we ever took to that place had a delightful time. I found the most amazing fashion magazines from the late 19th century with beautiful prints PERFECT for framing. There really is something for everyone. The place is HUGE! The best metro stop is Porte de Clingancourt on Metro line 4. Make sure to have a map! You will need to walk toward the freeway and go under the underpass. There is a true flea market before the underpass and a few people have mistaken that as the place. Don't make that mistake. (I did this and LOVED it. Found some great little treasures, but if you aren't interested in antiques, don't bother with it)

The Marais

The Marais neighborhood is also a MUST for boutique shopping and for just soaking up the environment. This is one of my favorite neighborhoods and worthy of some time wandering around. If you are interested in a walking tour, check out http://www.paris-walks.com/ the Marais and Montmartre walks are great, and take you to neighborhoods you will LOVE. We really recommend these. There are Marais and Montmartre tours on Saturday and Sunday. Check their schedule, you don't have to reserve in advance, you just show up at the meeting place. Really easy, really great. (DEFINITELY, definitely go on a "paris-walk". They are a great way to get to know the neighborhoods and hear all the interesting stories and history of the place. The Marais was easily my favorite neighborhood.)

EATING

You have to, have to, HAVE to eat a macaroon from LaDuree. They aren't macaroons like Americans think of, they are something totally different, not coconut. Also, the palmier cookies are quite nice (but only get them if you are also getting macaroons). The raspberry, pistachio and the salty caramel flavors are our personal faves. There are two locations in Paris, one on the Champs Elysees and the other on the corner of rue Royale and Faubourg-St Honore (this is often the best and easiest to get to-- just by the Madeleine and Place de la Bastille). The lines later in the day can be long, but move and are worth it. If you want to eat there, you don't have to wait in line-- just go in, there is a hostess on the right as you enter. Don't be shy, only tourists wait in line if they are eating inside. You can order a meal, or just a drink and the macaroons. (We went back to LaDuree three times I think. We couldn't get enough of the macaroons OR the ambience.)

Window of La Duree

Look for the "Le Routard" sticker on restaurant windows. This is like Zagats, but for the backpacker. It is less expensive, but divine. Truly, I have never gone wrong in a Le Routard recommended restaurant or shop. I attached a picture of what he looks like so you will know when you are out and about. We even ate at these places in the south, and they were awesome! (You'll see these on the windows but you can also look them up online or buy the book. It's a great way to eat well but cheaply in France.)
Falafels in the Marais. If you are already in the neighborhood especially, They are on rue de Rosiers (if you do the tour, you should go right by this).

Falafels in the Marais

Crepes! Try to find a creperie where you can sit down and eat. The choices there will be awesome. Try a salty caramel one if you get a chance, you won't be disappointed.

GENERAL TIPS

MUSEUMS: If you must do the Louvre, consider doing it on a night when it is open until 10pm (Wednesday and Fridays). If you have the Rick Steve's guide, his Louvre tour is the best (perfect amount of time and the real highlights), unless of course you were an art history major, you won't spend more than 1.5 hours there. If you must chose, go to the Musee d'Orsay, the top floor has the impressionists and most of the art work that many of us really enjoy looking at. I personally think the Orangerie, Rodin, and Picasso museums are better than the larger more popular ones, but with only three days, most people want to hit the big names.-Consider buying the Museum Pass, it will get you into almost all of the big ticket places, including Versailles, but not the Eiffel Tower. Check it out at: http://www.parismuseumpass.com/


VERSAILLES -- If you make a trip to Versailles, go early! It will take up most of your day. After touring the palace, consider renting a golf cart to cruise around the grounds. They are enormous, and you will be cold. You must maximize your time. You can rent them just after you enter the gardens before you begin to go down hill. Again, you will be cold. Take lots of layers that day, don't forget your umbrella, hat, scarf, and your most comfy walking shoes (I say this because we had 36 visitors and none of them ever were dressed comfortably there!). Try and get to Marie Antoinette's Hamlet (Le Petite Hameau). I think it is the best part!

METRO -- Buy a carnet on the metro (said car-nay). It is a set of ten tickets, cheaper than if you buy individually and you don't have to stand in line to buy a ticket every time you get on again.

THE MARAIS -- I recommend doing the Marais on Sunday since it is the Jewish quarter, almost everything is open there, where other neighborhoods tend to be a bit dead. Church is also located in the Marais.

NOTRE-DAME -- Go to Notre Dame on Sunday morning because they have church service you can attend. Fascinating. I just happened upon it and then went to the Paris ward from there since it's not too far on the metro.

the view from my school!

um, I'm just sayin'

$7 Hair Dye and a Little Luck

As wonderful as my new adventure is and as excited I am about it, there are a few sacrifices to be made when you kick your income to the curb. So with an income of zero and my roots growing by the minute, I thought I'd give dying my own hair a try. With the help of Katherine, who called her hair stylist friend to tell me what to get, and Cubbie who actually did the "do", here I am in all my glory. What do you think? Can I get buy on with $7 hair for a while?

Saying Goodbye to the Tuxedo T-Shirt

A few nights ago I was talking to a friend and the subject of my age camp up. He said “You know, 34 is a good age. It’s like a tuxedo t-shirt. You’re classy because you’re a tuxedo but you’re still fun because you’re also a t-shirt.” I thought it was a surprisingly good description. 34 is a little bit like that – you’re a full card-carrying member of adulthood but can still get away with an occasional youthful outburst.

But I turn 35 today – I can’t believe it. And now, as I sit here, a newly minted 35 year old, realizing that I’m closer to 40 than 30, closer to retirement than to the beginning of my life – I wonder what comes after the tuxedo t-shirt. Definitely not the bikini t-shirt, but I’m also not quite to the sweatshirts with printed animals stage yet either.

35 could have meant more suits, bags and shoes that cost too much, longer hours at a job I disliked, stress making me older, faster. But instead, 35 finds me sitting in a community college classroom. The suits and shoes have been replaced with the old Celtics T-shirt I’m wearing today and new braces, sitting awkwardly on my teeth. So if 34 is like a tuxedo t-shirt, will 35, for me, be like a Celtics t-shirt and braces?

Could be.

What it will be for a while is living with my parents and going to community college – hanging out with my 10 year old brother Jack on a Friday night – doing yoga in the backyard with my mom and aunt – studying anatomy – going to high school football games to watch my brother Tommy – volunteering at the hospital – applying to graduate schools. And what it will definitely be is finally, FINALLY being brave enough to wear a swimsuit without shorts in spite of thighs that are a little too white and definitely too fleshy.

So I think maybe I'll hang on to the tuxedo t-shirt for a while – along with the old Celtics t-shirt and braces, the new bathing suit hanging in my closet, and even occasionally still the shoes and suits.

This year on my birthday, come find me on the beach. Just look for the 35 year old girl, with a pair of pale, fleshy, happily liberated thighs, looking blissfully undefined!